Emotions. Defense Mechanisms. Whatever.

I don't really know what to say. I don't really know how to start this post. It just went to me that I have to write this down, maybe about what I'm feeling right now. (I know it's a cliche and an irony to my last post. Apologies.)


Did you ever feel broken, but not exactly that? Feel sad, but you know you're okay? Or maybe upset, but it seems that you're relaxed in a way or two? Well, sorry to say that you're a weird person - NAAH. I guess it's just normal to have these "weird stuff" going in your mind - or probably in your heart? Needless to say, I'm a bit in this emotional crisis and my speculated reason for this is having to miss a person so badly. I know I can just text him and start a conversation, I possibly can, but the thing is - will he answer back? I guess not - mostly, probably, maybe? I really don't know. I would really like to thank my defense mechanisms for this because they sort of have a big help here, so here I am coming up with 5 Possible Reasons for Not Messaging a Person - not just a person though 'cause it's somebody you love (alright?):

1. Pride. Definitely, we all have that to keep.
2. Hesitation. Is there anything important to say? What will I get from him if I do text him? (You won't have a reason to miss him! - Yeah, right.) 
3. Fear. Your heart pounds when you see his number. You already typed hello, but you think it's not enough, and then for a while, you'll think it is because he might not reply and you just gave away too many words without any response - which all boils down to your pride again.
4. Time. If you don't get any chance of staying idle for a while just to think about that person, I bet you have a busy and time-managed schedule there honey. I must agree, it's good for anyone. You're just too busy putting yourself together - or should I say building your pride up together?
5. Love. Well, pride now doesn't have any say on this. Good thing. I believe that it will always end up to this reason - I suppose. This word can explain for itself.

Sorry for being too subjective about this. I might have generalized stuff, so I ask of your understanding. I've been too subjective with what I'm saying about things nowadays, maybe because it has been all about me. I need him now, frankly-speaking, because he's someone I can talk to about everything. It's hard to lose the one you treated as a best friend - especially if you're that person who doesn't consider that label much. 






"You're the sun in my brightest days, at the same time, you're the rain in my gloomiest afternoons."


Maffay :/